My son confronted me with this question, “who is my father?”
“I will not blame you my son for this question” I replied.
This is because your father leaves the house very early and returns very late at night after you have slept.
Any time he returned when you haven’t sleep, I will show you who he is. “Mummy, is he not uncle John who comes here every day?” “No, uncle John is our brother.”
If it is like that , my father is not showing me a sense of belonging to this family. He is not suppose to be my father” the child replied bitterly.
Father take note of this because your presence in the house is very important to the child you left behind to the mother. There are certain things that your presence can stop a child from doing which he will do in the presence of the mother with out being afraid.